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Ese waba ufite ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba igihe uri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina?ni ba ufite iki kibazo dore uko wabyirinda

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Ni ikibazo cy’ugarije ingo nyinshi muri ikigihe aho usanga abashakanye cyangwa se abitegura kurushinga bashobora gutandukana bitewe n’ikibazo cyo kutaryohereza abagore cyangwa abakunzi babo mu gihe bari kwinezeza,bitewe n’uko umugabo ashobora kuba yarangiza mugihe uwo bari kumwe atari yanabitekereza.musore/mugabo niba nawe ukunze guhura n’iki kibazo dore uko wabyitwaramo maze ukongera ukavugana neza n’umukunzi wawe.

Kurangiza vuba mu gihe kimibonano mpuzabitsina bishobora kuba byatuma abashakanye batandukana

Kurangiza vuba ni iki?

Ubusanzwe kurangiza vuba ni ugusohora nyuma y’akanya gato cyane winjije igitsina cyawe mu cy’umugore cyangwa se bikaba bitewe n’uko umugore agukozeho cyangwa agukorakoye byoroheje cyane.

Ni iki gitera kurangiza vuba?

Kugeza ubu ntiharamenyekana neza icyaba gitera kurangiza vuba. Abahanga bavuga ko uko umugabo agenda akura cyangwa akora imibonano mpuzabitsina ari nako agenda amenya amayeri yo kwirinda kurangiza vuba bityo akaba ari we ugena igihe ari burangirize nta ngorane. N’ubwo bimeze gutya haba ubwo umugabo wari usanzwe amenyereye ndetse nta kibazo afite arangije vuba iyo ahuye n’umukunzi mushya.

Bishobora kuba ku mugabo kandi bitewe n’ibihe runaka arimo, cyangwa igiye hashize igihe kinini adakora imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Abahanga bavuga ko kurangiza vuba bishobora kandi guterwa no guhangayika, kwishinja ko nta cyo ushoboye cyangwa se kwiheba. Hari n’ubwo ariko biterwa n’imisemburo idakora neza mu mubiri, kugira ibikomere mu mitekerereze cyangwa se ikoreshwa ry’imiti imwe n’imwe.

Ibimenyetso biranga umuntu ufite ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba

Ikimenyetso nyamukuru ni ukuba umugabo arangiza vuba cyane kandi mu gihe atifuza kandi ugasanga abitewe n’utuntu duto cyane nko kuba umukunzi we amukorakoye gato cyane, cyangwa se akinjiza igitsina cye mu cy’umugore.

Ni gute wamenya ko ufite iki kibazo?

Kugirango wemeze ko ufite ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba ugomba kujya kwa muganga akagusuzuma, mukaganira ku hahise hawe mu bijyanye n’imibonano aho bishobora no kuba ngombwa ko agutuma uwo mukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ikindi ni uko muganga akora ibizamini binyuranye kugirango amenye koko inkomoko y’uku kurangiza vuba.

Uko Kurangiza vuba bivurwa

Ubusanzwe kurangiza vuba ni ikintu kigenda kikiza buhoro buhoro. Ntibisaba gufata imiti akenshi aho abafite iki kibazo bagirwa inama yo gukora imyitozo yo kumenyereza imikaya, cyangwa se kugerageza kwirangaza mu gihe bari gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ku bakoresha ibiyobyabwenge, inzoga n’itabi nabo bagirwa inama zo kubihagarika burundu kuko bishobora kubafasha gukira iki kibazo.

Ikindi ni uko ushobora kwifashisha agakingirizo cyangwa se guhindura uburyo wakoragamo imibonano kugirango ugabanye uburyo wumvamo uburyohe bukugeza ku kurangiza, ikindi ni ukuganira n’umukunzi wawe mukamenya neza iyo ugiye kurangiza uko biba byifashe bityo mwajya kuhagera mukaba mwagabanya ibibatera kuryoherwa cyane mugasa nk’abaruhuka ubundi mukongera mugatangira.

Niba ufite iki kibazo ariko inama ya mbere ugirwa ni ukugana muganga akagusuzuma ubundi akakugira inama y’uko wabyitwaramo.

Richard Uwizera@ibyamamare.com

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