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Ukuntu wabera umukunzi mwiza cyane umukobwa mukundana

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Benshi twinjira murukundo tubishaka cyane twumva tubikunze ariko siko twese turubamo kimwe, harababa bafite ururyoshye cyane hari n’abandi usanga rutabaryoheye cyane. Kuba hungu rero dore uko wajyubera umukobwa ukunda umukunzi mwiza kugirango mube muburyohe bw’urukundo kuko siko twese turabahanga murukundo.

1. kumwerekana

Ese ninde udakunda kwerekanwa? Niba umufite rero ujye ukunda kumwerekana cyane haba munshuti zawe, mukazi, kubabyeyi n’ahandi hose bishoboka. Ibi bimwereka ko nigushimishije cyane kandi ko aribyagaciro gakomeye cyane kuba umufite ndetse bikanamushimisha cyane kuburyo nubwo yajya kuri kuwundi mubumbe yajya ahora akuvuga.

2.kwibuka iminsi ye y’ingenzi

Ujya wibagirwa igihe wavukiye? Hoya ntawubikora. Nkuko utakibagirwa igihe wavukiye kuko ari icyingenzi mubuzima bwawe abari nako utakibagirwa icy’umukunzi wawe igihe umufite, sigihe cy’amavuko gusa kuko haba hari n’indi minsi y’ingenzi nayo yaba ihari ukaba uyizi. Ibi nibyiza cyane kuko biba bigaragara ko umwita ho cyane.

3.kumufasha

Hari igihe ubusanga afite ibintu runaka ashaka kugera ho cyangwa ari gukora ubizi, iyo ubimufashije mo abonako umuri hafi cyane niyo waba utabishoboye icyangombwa nuko uba uhari igihe cyose yagukenera nubwo yaba ari mubibazo. Ibi bituma yumva afite umutekano hafi yawe kandi nk’umuhungu nicyo kiba gikenewe kuko uba uri muri control ya byose.

5.kumutungura

Igihe cyose ubishoboye wajyutegura ikintu kiza cyane hagati yanyu wamukorera ariko umutunguye muburyo nawe atakekaga ko bushoboka, bishobora kuba kumusohokana bitunguranye, kumutekera, kumusura bitunguranye n’ibindi byinshi bimwereka ko arumunyamahirwe akomeye cyane kuba agufite ndetse ari nacyo Arusha abandi.

6.kumubera umwizerwa

Ubunyanga mugayo no kwizerana nizo nkingi zamwamba murukundo uko rwaba ruri kose, igihe ubaye umwizerwa kuva mugutangira kurukundo rwanyu nigake uzasanga mwagiranye ikibazo biguturutse ho.

7.kumuha impano

Gukunda kumuha impano nyinshi zitandukanye cyane cyane ugendeye kubintu uzi akunda cyane cyangwa aba yifuza kuzagera ho cyangwa ibyo akeneye cyane mubuzima bwe nabyo bigaragaza ko yitawe ho cyane kandi ufite byose ntakibazo icyo yagukenera ho icyaricyo cyose yakibona.

8.kwirinda kumunekaneka

Buri wese yanga umuntu winjira mubuzima bwe cyane, wamuntu uba yumva ashaka kumenya utuntu twawe twose ngaho wagiyehe cyangwase uvuye he, agata umwanya ashaka kumenya abantu bose muvugana muri phone yawe mbese akuneka mutuntu twose. Ibikorwa nkibyo rero ujye ubyirinda umuhe umwanya uhagije we kumuzitira kuko binatuma abonako ntakibi umuke ho umwizera cyane.

9.kumuhimba utuzina

Abakobwa buriya bakunda guhimbwa utuzina twiza dushimishije, ujyiye ubishobora wajyushaka akazina gashya burikwezi kuburyo ahora yumva ari musha kuri wowe ishusho yarafite ukwezi gushize atariyo afite ubu.

 10.kutamuhisha amabanga

Harabantu baba bagira utubanga twinshi cyane bahishahisha, igihe uri murukudo ntuka mwereke ko hari ibintu runaka udashaka ko amenya cyangwa umuhisha kuko ibyo bituma burigihe ahora yibaza ibyo bintu ibyaribyo bikaba byanavamo kutakwizera kuburyo nibyo umubwije ukuri atajya apfa guhita abyemera cyangwa we agahora yibaza niba atari umwizerwa imbere yawe bigatuma yitakariza ikizere.

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